Most of us, who grew up before the 1960s, know the joys of living in a
neighborhood. As children, this was our playground and the neighbors were our
friends. When we became parents, our neighborhood was our sanctuary and the
neighbors our support system.
How would you describe your neighborhood today? Do you know everyone on the
block? Do you feel safe and secure in there? Is your neighborhood comprised of
a community of people working together toward a common goal or individual
families living independent lives? Unfortunately the latter characterizes many
neighborhoods today. Why?
- We’re a transitory population. We move from place to place in search
of a better lifestyle. We don’t stay anywhere long enough to know our
neighbors and we hesitate making new friends in order to avoid the pain of the
inevitable good bye.
- We don’t stay home. Many neighborhoods are virtual ghost towns during
the week because, while the children are in school or daycare, the adults are
at work. When these families come home after a busy day away, the last thing
they want to do is socialize with neighbors.
- We don’t trust as easily. We build high fences and cultivate thick
hedges around our property to discourage even neighborly intrusion.
Do you dream of living in a neighborhood like the one you remember as a
child? Here are some ideas for creating a supportive and peaceful environment
in your neighborhood.
REACH OUT
If you want to be a part of a friendlier neighborhood, take the initiative.Speak to your neighbors.Express an interest in something he or she values, a prize rose or a
weed-free lawn, for example, or comment on the good manners their children use
when they come over to retrieve their soccer ball from your yard.If one of your neighbors attends your church, offer to drive them next
Sunday. Invite a neighbor over for ice tea one warm afternoon or plan a
neighborhood gathering for everyone on your block. If you see suspicious activity around a neighbor’s property, tell him
about it.
- Report crime as soon as possible. Whether the issue is
graffiti, petty vandalism or something much more serious, police cannot
act without first hearing about the problem from you. Calling won't
guarantee that police can fix the problem, but failing to call can
guarantee that they won't. Don't assume someone else has already called,
make the call yourself.
- Report nuisances and other noncriminal problems promptly.
Examples of these items are junked cars on lawns and in the street, old
mattresses left to rot in the backyard, broken furniture on porches,
garbage piling up. When you find yourself thinking, "Someone ought to do
something about that"-do something. Call code enforcement, landlords,
residents, local business owners, or any other person or agency that may
have influence on the issue. Then call your neighbors and ask those who
are also concerned to report the issue as well.
- Take away the opportunity for crime. Think about your
home, your car and even your lifestyle and ask what you could change to
take away the opportunity for crime. Lock your car and never leave
valuables, even for a few minutes in the car. Trim bushes or trees on
your property that offer too-convenient hiding places. Also, trim where
trees and bushes block clear view of your front door, or make it
difficult for a person to see out the windows of your home. Make your
front porch visible and make sure your home looks like it has eyes on
the neighborhood.
- Introduce yourself to your neighbors. Make a list of
names and phone numbers of every neighbor on your block. Set a goal of
at least 10 neighbor contacts. Each citizen is responsible for their own
neighborhood. Any citizen who has turned around a problem block is a
citizen who really knows the people who live there. Did you grow up in a
neighborhood where everyone knew each other? That is rare today.
Neighborhoods have changed, but realize that you can fix it. It makes a
huge difference to know your neighbors and be able to talk to them.
Get involved.
To get involved with your neighbors;Note their habits. a woman’s life was saved
because someone observed that she wasn’t following her usual daily
routine. When a neighbor checked on her, he found her unconscious on the floor.Let a neighbor know when you will be gone for a day or more.
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Know the names of neighborhood kids and their friends.
This can make a profound difference should there be a need for adults
and young people to talk to each other in cases of emergency. It is
difficult to help form a safe and supportive community for children
without the adults and children knowing each other. Even those without
children should know to whom the various children in the neighborhood
belong. Every adult will be better able to help in an emergency and will
be better prepared to discuss problems if they arise
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Make a list of landlords in your area. As owners of
property in the community, landlords are responsible to the neighborhood
and should be concerned with the health of that neighborhood. You can
easily find out the name and address of the owner of the property by
contacting your county assessor's office, using the online property
search tool.
- Walk around the block. It sounds simple, but it is a
great way to meet neighbors, and get to know your neighborhood while
getting a little exercise. Walk at night if you are comfortable doing
so, and if not, your neighborhood needs more involvement. Chat with
neighbors and kids while walking, they will get to know you too.
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Drive slowly through your neighborhood. Stop signs,
lights and speed bumps can slow traffic down, but so can you. By
regularly driving slowly on neighborhood side streets, you encourage
those in a hurry to find another rout rather than getting stuck behind a
slow poke.
- Pick up litter near your home. Even if you didn't put it
there. Most people are less likely to litter where they don't see litter
already. You can help stop littering in your neighborhood by taking
away the litter that attracts it. Pet owners should make sure they pick
up after their pets
- Organize a neighborhood watch group or some other type of neighborhood organization.
If you are willing, decide what greater contribution you could make.
Attend meetings if there is already an association. Keep informed of
neighborhood issues. This is a great way to meet other neighbors who are
also concerned. Even an evening walking group can help.

Don't stop at 10 tasks. There are many more things you can do to make your neighborhood healthy, safe and clean.
- Turn on porch light at night.
- Spend time in your front yard
- Stay in one place-long term residents create stability
- Offer assistance to a neighbor in need-offer help with yard work
- Ask neighborhood kids for help if you need it-they are always happy to earn a few dollars
- Be the kind of neighbor you would want to have
Today, we should all do all we can to activate our neighborhoods by
encouraging neighborhood associations, empowering neighborhoods to
positively impact the community, and provide a framework and support for
grass-roots projects.
We can’t depend on our dysfunctional government to improve our lives.
Organize a neighborhood potluck, get to know your neighbors and prove
that we can work together, be positive, care about each other.
Now is the time to act! Get
out there, look for your neighbors, be friendly, put in offers, and get
started on your neighborhood improvement.
Do you have any questions or comments?
I want to hear from you.
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